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NYC Hookup Spots

It's no secret that NYC is one of the best cities in all of the US! Yes, it's for many reasons, but we pretty sure the number one reason is how many great bars and nightclubs there are. There's no city quite like NYC for partying, that's for sure.

History Of The Hookup Scene In NYC

NYC might not have been one of the first settled cities in the 1600 but it did quickly become one of the most popular immigrant cities throughout the 1700s and 180os. The very first bar was opened in 1750 and very soon after there were bars opening in every neighborhood. And with the bars came the nightlife and hooking up!

Best Times And Days To Go Out In NYC

It's common knowledge that NYC is the city that never sleeps. So it only makes sense that compared to other US cities, NYC bars and clubs would be open way later and more often. And this is true! Pretty much any night in NYC is a good night to go out. In general most clubs are the busiest on Fridays and Saturdays but that doesn't mean you can't find something fun happening on a Tuesday or Wednesday!

NYC Hookup Spots: Directory

When it came to making our NYC directory, the SoNaughty team made the decision to specifically cover hookup bars and clubs on the Manhattan island portion of NYC. Mostly because if we included the other boroughs, there would just be too many sexy hookup bars and sultry hookup clubs to choose from!

NYC Hookup Bars

For such a small island, NYC has a TON of bars. It should be shocking but we aren't surprised. After all, NYC crams a lot into a tiny space! And lucky for you, out of al the other hookup spotswe've profiled, NYC definitely has the best selection of hookup bars. Read on for our top five spots!

Industry Bar

Type

Gay Bar

Space

Bar and Lounge Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

355 W 52nd St, New York, NY 10019, USA

Website

Industry Bar

Any Notes

All major credit cards and cash accepted; no parking available and limited street parking nearby.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Industry Bar is one of the most popular gay bars in all of NYC. The gay community has been flocking to it for decades. Regulars love the vibe, drink selections, and friendly guests. Basically if you're looking to have a great night and hookup with someone, you should definitely go to Industry bar to make it happen. There are multiple drink specials throughout the week so no matter what night you go, you can always find something to tickle your fancy, whether it's a drink or a person!

Bar 54

Type

Cocktail Bar

Space

Bar and Lounge Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

135 W 45th St, New York, NY 10036, USA

Website

Bar 54

Any Notes

All major credit cards and cash accepted; no parking available and limited street parking nearby.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Bar 54 is a NYC staple! This bar has been around since the glamorous, golden seventies and the decor inside definitely still feels like it! The inside of Bar 54 definitely has disco vibes, but it doesn't feel like a retro or dated bar. Rather, the furnishings and interior are more of an homage to the disco era. After the golden decor, we especially love the cocktail menu. If you are looking for some of the best martinis in the city, you've found them at Bar 54! Not interested in cocktails? Well there is a great beer and wine selection as well!

Please Don't Tell

Type

Cocktail Bar

Space

Bar and Lounge Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

113 St Marks Pl, New York, NY 10009, USA

Website

Please Don't Tell

Any Notes

All major credit cards and cash accepted; no parking available and limited street parking nearby.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Please Don't Tell is a new cocktail bar located in the trendy, rockin' St Mark's Place. This bar has mostly been a well kept secret, like the name implies, but as we all know it's impossible for the best things to stay a secret for long! We love the low-key and mellow ambiance of Please Don't Tell. As well, the drinks menu is full of classics like a Long Island Ice Tea and new concoctions like the Midnight Black Bellini. No matter what, always order two of everything so you can offer one to a potential hookup! That'll definitely impress them.

Dive Bar

Type

Dive Bar

Space

Bar and Lounge Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

732 Amsterdam Ave, New York, NY 10025, USA

Website

Dive Bar

Any Notes

All major credit cards and cash accepted; no parking available and limited street parking nearby.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Like the name suggests, Dive Bar is a dive bar! But it's definitely one of the more well-kept and clean dive bars we've ever been to. Perhaps it is safer to say that this is designed in the spirit of dive bars! Regardless, this is still a casual, grungy, rockin' fun place to spend a Friday or Saturday night. You won't find many fancy cocktails here but you will find cold beer, hard liquor, and fast and loose patrons looking for a good time! It's almost a guarantee you'll find somebody to hookup with at Dive Bar!

Slainte Bar and Lounge

Type

Traditional Bar

Space

Bar and Lounge Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

304 Bowery, New York, NY 10012, USA

Website

Slainte Bar and Lounge

Any Notes

All major credit cards and cash accepted; no parking available and limited street parking nearby.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Slainte Bar and Lounge is a casual, laid back bar located in the East Village. If you're wanting a relaxing place to grab a pint after work or a place to watch the game, Slainte Bar and Lounge is the place for you. But it's not all beer and sports games, of course! Young professionals tend to flock here so there are also plenty of fun cocktails and unique decor to make it a little more special than your regular neighborhood bar. It is hands down one of the more popular bars for singles in the East Village!

NYC Hookup Clubs

They call NYC the city that never sleeps for a reason: because everyone is always out partying at a nightclub! Just like the bar scene, the NYC hookup clubs scene is just as varied and interesting. No matter what your mood or interests, you can find the perfect nightclub for you. Check out our five fave nightclubs below!

Cielo

Type

Nightclub

Space

Bar and Lounge and Dance Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

18 Little West 12th St, New York, NY 10014, USA

Website

Cielo

Any Notes

Cash cover at door; ATM on site; no parking available; all major cash and cards accepted inside.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

If you are looking for one of the coolest, sexiest clubs in the West Village, Cielo is the perfect nightclub. This nightclub is small and tucked unassumingly between two larger buildings. Many people don't even realize that it's there! And that's just how the regulars like it. The club is cozy, full of low lighting and comfy lounge seats. There is a dance floor but many people choose to relax and lounge while listening to the music. You won't find a lot of drink specials at this night club but the price of the cocktails is worth it. They are very, very tasty!

Marquee New York

Type

Nightclub

Space

Bar and Lounge and Dance Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

289 10th Ave, New York, NY 10001, USA

Website

Marquee New York

Any Notes

Cash cover at door; ATM on site; no parking available; all major cash and cards accepted inside.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Marquee New York is a bustling, busy nightclub where you go if you are looking to really dance the night away. This club is spread over multiple floors and each has its own bar area and dance floor. From dance to pop to electronic, you'll hear it blasting at Marquee New York. This nightclub isn't specifically a gay nightclub but the music selection and location makes its a popular spot for the gay community. So no matter what type you're looking for to hook up with, likely you'll find them partying at Marquee New York!

Pacha NYC

Type

Nightclub

Space

Bar and Lounge and Dance Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

618 W 46th St, New York, NY 10036, USA

Website

Pacha NYC

Any Notes

Cash cover at door; ATM on site; no parking available; all major cash and cards accepted inside.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Pacha NYC is a coveted NYC nightclub located in Hell's Kitchen. This nightclub takes up a warehouse space near the pier and is absolutely massive. It may even be one of the biggest nightclubs on Manhattan island! And it may be massive but it is ALWAYS packed. Be prepared to wait in line if it's a Friday or Saturday night. However we will also say that Pacha NYC is definitely worth the wait. This is the kind of nightclub that knows how to throw a party. The music is loud and grooving and the drinks are affordable. Just the way we like it!

Pyramid Club

Type

Nightclub

Space

Bar and Lounge and Dance Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

101 Avenue A #1, New York, NY 10009, USA

Website

Pyramid Club

Any Notes

Cash cover at door; ATM on site; no parking available; all major cash and cards accepted inside.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

If you are looking for a rocking club in the Lower East Side, we highly recommend hitting up Pyramid Club. This nightclub is a super cool, unassuming spot that many celebrities like to hit up due to how low-key it is. The lighting is low, the decor is dark, and there are plenty of shadowy corners for getting up to no good—the fun kind of no good, of course! We especially love the drinks menu at Pyramid Club, which is full of a mix of imported wines, local beers, and interesting cocktails.

Cubbyhole

Type

Gay Nightclub

Space

Bar and Lounge and Dance Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

281 W 12th St A, New York, NY 10014, USA

Website

Cubbyhole

Any Notes

Cash cover at door; ATM on site; no parking available; all major cash and cards accepted inside.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Cubbyhole is the West Village's most popular gay nightclub. It's been serving NYC since the 80s and has established itself as not only one of the most popular but one of the safest and most fun as well. If you are looking to party hard, you can do it at Cubbyhole. Making new friends and hooking up is encouraged at Cubbyhole; however, if you are just wanting to drink and dance, that is okay too! Pretty much anything goes at this nightclub!

NYC Swingers Clubs

It's no surprise that NYC also has a fantastic sex club scene. In fact, this great city has the most swingers clubs and lifestyle clubs of any other major US city. What can we say, New Yorkers love to get laid!

SNCTM

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Addresses vary depending on event and only available to members.

Website

SNCTM

Any Notes

Must be a member to attend events.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

SNCTM is a super exclusive, upscale members only club with locations in luxury cities around the world, including London and Los Angeles. If you are wanting to feel like you're an extra in Eyes Wide Shut, then SNCTM is the sex club for you. However, it's not easy to get a membership! This club has quite the waiting list due to how in demand they are. But we think it is worth the wait. Their sex parties are like no other you will ever experience!

Bowery Bliss

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Membership Approval

Website

Bowery Bliss

Any Notes

Must be a member to attend events.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Bowery Bliss is a members only swingers club that has been in business for close to a decade. They throw super relaxing, welcoming parties multiple times a month. If you're new to swinging, this is the perfect first club to get a membership. Bowery Bliss offers welcome sessions and provides lots of information to new members so they feel comfortable. They want to make sure you'll have the best time getting laid at one of their parties.

Killing Kittens

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Addresses Available Upon Membership Approval

Website

Killing Kittens

Any Notes

Must be a member to attend events.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Killing Kittens is another world-wide chain, most popular in the UK. This members only club keeps the locations of its sex parties a secret until the night of. It allows for more privacy and discretion, which Killing Kittens takes very seriously! Members love Killing Kittens parties because they're very fun and unpretentious. They have a large membership base and hold multiple parties a month so you can always meet new people at each event you attend!

Skirt Club

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Addresses Available Once Membership Is Approved

Website

Skirt Club

Any Notes

Must be a member to attend events; must be a woman or identify as a woman to attend events.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Here's something you don't hear of all the time: a woman only sex club! That's right: Skirt Club is especially for women (or women-identifying) to explore their deepest desires and fantasies with other women. You don't need to be a lesbian to attend Skirt Club events but you do need to be open and curious about exploring your sexuality with other women.

Club Labyrinth

Type

Private Events

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Approval

Website

Club Labyrinth

Any Notes

Must be a member to attend events.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Club Labyrinth is a new swingers club in NYC. They focus on providing a kinky and naughty BDSM experience for all of their members. So if you're especially into getting spanked or being tied up, this is definitely the sex club for your to join! There are multiple events each month that cover a variety of themes so you can always find something that piques your interest!

Explore the best NYC hookup bars and clubs with help from SoNaughty!

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