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San Antonio Hookup Spots

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We have the same problem with every Texan city we profile: how do we pick a favorite city? It's pretty much impossible to even rank them but if we did, San Antonio would rank fairly high on the list. As a city to visit, it is gorgeous and full of so many sights and unique history. But as a nightlife spot it is even better: there are more hookup bars and clubs than we know what to do with!

History Of Hookup Scene In San Antonio

San Antonio is actually fairly young as a US city. This is because for a long time, much of Texas was not part of the United States. There is a rich native and Spanish history in Texas but we will focus on the American history. San Antonio became an official US city in 1718 and it was then that it became a popular settlement for travellers and cowboys. Many bars and saloons were built and they were known as rowdy places for having sex and hooking up.

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Best Times And Days To Go Out In San Antonio

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San Antonio is a bit more traditional, like many of the other US cities we have profiled. And all that means is that the best nights to go out are Fridays and Saturdays, followed by Thursdays. And while you can definitely find a great bar on a Tuesday or Monday, the nightclubs will be a bit on the quiet side.

San Antonio Hookup Spots: Directory

SoNaughty has put together the ultimate list of San Antonio hookup bars and clubs. Hit up these bars and clubs and we pretty much guarantee that you'll find a hookup and get laid!

San Antonio Hookup Bars

We are all about the hookup bar scene in San Antonio! There are so many different bars to choose from that it was hard to pick just five for our list but we managed somehow!

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Menger Bar

Type
Traditional Bar
Space
Bar and Lounge Space
Crowd
Young and Mature Adults
Address
204 Alamo Plaza, San Antonio TX, 78205, USA
Website
Any Notes
All major credit cards and cash accepted; parking available through the hotel at a cost; accessible entrance.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Menger Bar is part of the Menger Hotel, which is a trendy boutique hotel in downtown San Antonio. We normally wouldn't list hotel bars but this one is super special! It's located on the roof of the Menger Hotel and offers incredible views of the city. We are also super fond of the incredible drinks menu; you will find unique cocktails like nothing you've ever seen at Menger Bar! You'll definitely want to try one... or all of them. This bar attracts a lot of singles and people either vacationing or on business trips, as it is a hotel bar, so it's the perfect spot for meeting new people.
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Dirty Nelly's Irish Pub

Type
Traditional Bar
Space
Bar and Lounge Area
Crowd
Mature Adults
Address
715 River Rd, San Antonio, TX 78212-3124, USA
Website
Any Notes
Cash only; no parking on site but some street parking available.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Dirty Nelly's Irish Pub is exactly like it sounds: a traditional Irish pub. And why would you want to go to an Irish pub while in San Antonio? Because it's a lot of fun! And somehow, this pub is super authentic. So if you are looking for something different while visiting or working in San Antonio, a wee little trip to Ireland is the perfect thing! Pints of beer and cider are most popular here, plus you can also get a warm meal like cottage pie. We love taking dates here because the beer selection is as great as the prices. Plus there are plenty of 2 for 1 nights!
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Swig Martini Bar

Type
Martini Bar
Space
Bar and Lounge Space
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
111 W Crockett St, San Antonio, TX 78205-2547, USA
Website
Any Notes
All major credit cards and cash accepted; limited parking available on site; accessible entrance.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Swig Martini Bar is a small and trendy cocktail bar located in the heart of San Antonio's Glasston district. As the name suggests, this bar is known for it's martinis. Sure, you can order other drinks here but why would you want to? Swig Martini Bar as some of the best martinis in all of San Antonio - maybe even all of Texas. Plus, there is nothing sexier than sipping on a martini. That's why Swig Martini Bar is such a popular hookup spot and that's why we love going there whenever we are in San Antonio!
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Bonham Exchange

Type
Gay Bar and Club
Space
Bar and Lounge and Event Space
Crowd
Young Adults
Address
11 Bonham, San Antonio, TX 78205-2000, USA
Website
Any Notes
Cash cover on Fridays and Saturdays; ATM on site; all major credit cards and cash accepted inside.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
San Antonio has a pretty great gay community and everybody in it will likely recommend Bonham Exchange as their fave bar. Bonham Exchange also doubles as a nightclub on the weekends, making it even better. We are all about hitting two birds with one stone! Bonham Exchange has a flirty yet relaxed atmosphere and specializes in interesting cocktails and imported wines. On the weekends you can expect to get your dance on with a local DJ spinning some of the best pop and dance tracks.
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Howl at the Moon San Antonio

Type
Piano Bar and Club
Space
Bar and Lounge and Event Space
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
111 W Crockett St, Suite 201, San Antonio, TX 78205-2547, USA
Website
Any Notes
Some nights are ticketed and must be purchased in advance; please check website for more info.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
If you're tired of the same old same old when it comes to bars, why not hit up a How at the Moon location? This bar chain is better than your typical bar because of the live music battles they have as entertainment. That's right: at Howl at the Moon, two musicians will be battling it out on the piano and the crowd will be encouraged to participate and choose a winner. If that doesn't sound like a blast, you can always enjoy the music from afar at the bar.

San Antonio Hookup Clubs

Nightclubs will always make the very best hookup spots. The nightclubs in San Antonio are no exception to this! If you are looking for a good, sexy time in this great city, try checking out one of the below nightclubs:

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Jazz TX

Type
Jazz Club
Space
Bar and Lounge and Event Space
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
312 Pearl Pkwy, Bldg 6, San Antonio, TX 78215-1261, USA
Website
Any Notes
Cash cover on Fridays and Saturdays; open late on the weekends; no parking on site but some street parking available.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Jazz TX is one of the premiere jazz clubs in all of San Antonio—maybe even all of Texas! People from all over travel to enjoy a fun night at Jazz TX. No matter what night you go, you can always find incredible live music. However the more popular musicians tend to book in advance so check the website for more information. We love the vibe of this jazz bar; it's sexy and subdued, like putting on silk pyjamas. Even you don't like jazz you'll fall in love with this nightclub!
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Laugh Out Loud Comedy Club

Type
Comedy Club
Space
Lounge and Bar and Performance Space
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
618 N.W. Loop 410, Suite 312, San Antonio, TX 78216-5515, USA
Website
Any Notes
It is best to purchase tickets in advance; some tickets available at the door; no parking on site but some street parking available.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
If dancing or listening to music isn't your idea of a great night out then what about laughing? Sometimes a night of laughing is the best way to break the ice and get to know somebody! Laugh out Loud Comedy Club is one of the best comedy clubs in all of San Antonio. There are a variety of acts throughout the week, from local comedians to big names to amateur nights and everything in between! We've found that comedy clubs like Laugh Out Loud Comedy Club tend to attract a lot of singles looking to hook up. After all, nothing is sexier than laughing, right? Right!
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Cowboys Dance Hall San Antonio

Type
Speciality Nightclub
Space
Bar and Lounge and Multipurpose Space
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
3030 NE Loop 410 # @I35, San Antonio, TX 78218-1529
Website
Any Notes
Tickets can be purchased in advance or at the door; weekends tend to sell out in advance; parking available on site.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
If you are looking for a super authentic Texan experience, we highly recommend checking out the Cowboys Dance Hall. This nightclub specializes in line dancing and square dancing. And don't worry about needing to bring a partner; there are always plenty of singles who are looking for partners! Along with fun dancing, you can also try your hand at riding the mechanical bull! It doesn't get more Texas than the Cowboys Dance Hall.
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502 Bar

Type
Nightclub and Bar
Space
Bar and Lounge and Performance Space
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
502 Embassy Oaks, Suite #138, San Antonio, TX 78216-1900
Website
Any Notes
Cash cover at door; ATM on site; all major credit cards and cash accepted inside.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
502 Nightclub is a sexy little nightclub located right on the river in downtown San Antonio. We love this nightclub for its intimate decor and sexy dance beats. The lighting is kept low and seductive, adding to the mystery of the space. Sometimes you can hardly see the person you are dancing with and that is just the way we like it!
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Kremlin

Type
Nightclub
Space
Bar and Lounge and Dance Space
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
212 College St, San Antonio, TX 78205-1813
Website
Any Notes
Cash cover at door; ATM on site; all major credit cards and cash accepted inside; no parking on site but some street parking available nearby.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Kremlin is one of the longest running nightclubs in all of San Antonio. It is also one the largest, spanning over 12,000 square feet on multiple floors. Each floor has separate dance rooms and bars. No matter what kind of music you like, you will find it blasting at Kremlin! This club is always packed, especially on Fridays and Saturdays so it's pretty easy to find a hookup!

San Antonio Swingers Clubs

San Antonio's lifestyle scene has been growing considerably over the past few years. There are many different kinds of members only swingers clubs that you can try out. New to sex clubs? No worries! All of the clubs listed below are very welcoming to new members.

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Players Club

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
11431 Perrin Beitel Rd. San Antonio, TX 78217, USA
Website
Any Notes
Must be a member to attend events.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Players Club is the oldest swingers club in San Antonio. They've been providing the swinging community with sex parties for over decade now and they just keep getting better and better as time goes on. If you are looking for a no-frills sort of sex club environment where the focus is on your pleasure, this is the perfect sex club for you!
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Riverside Ranch

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
Address Available Upon Request
Website
Any Notes
Must be a member to attend events.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Riverside Ranch is a special kind of swingers club. It's located outside of San Antonio and also doubles as a resort and overnight vacation spot. Have you ever wanted your swingers party to last for multiple days? Well then you absolutely must check out Riverside Ranch! You can book to stay one, two, or three nights or more at this ranch, where they have daily group activities and also encourage one on one actives too. You'll have some of the best sex of your life at Riverside Ranch, trust us!
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Sugar's San Antonio

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
2731 NW Loop 410, San Antonio, TX 78230, USA
Website
Any Notes
Must be a member to attend events.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
Sugar's San Antonio is a newer swingers club however it is quickly growing in popularity. Younger couples and singles make up the bulk of memberships at the club. Sugar's also has a focus on exploring the kinkier side of sex and offer BDSM theme nights. If you are new to the BDSM and fetish world, Sugar's will help to introduce you!
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The Friends Club

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
Address Available Upon Request
Website
Any Notes
Must be a member to attend events.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
The Friends Club is another long running swingers club. It is actually located outside of San Antonio closer to Austin but in reality these two cities are so close together that many out of city clubs are between both. The Friends Club is in a great location because it attracts members from multiple cities in Texas. That means you are likely to always meet someone new at these sex club events!
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The Velvet Curtain Social Club

Type
Members Only Club
Space
Private Rooms and Common Areas
Crowd
Young to Mature Adults
Address
Address Available Upon Request
Website
Any Notes
Must be a member to attend events.
BRIEF DESCRIPTION
The Velvet Curtain is another swingers club that shares its membership with the Austin and Dallas communities. It's been entertaining couples and singles for over two decades and they aren't showing any signs of slowing down any time soon! What we love about this sex club are all of the theme nights. They regularly have costume parties so you can really explore your fantasies!

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Best San Antonio Hookup Bars & Clubs

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